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- YES ... YOU CAN DO IT! d - Every new year most of us join the rest of the world in saying, "THIS YEAR I RESOLVE TO — " Even after we promise ourselves that we will stick with it THIS TIME ... we often fall back into the same old routines! Sometimes, we reach a point where we convince ourselves not to bother with resolutions ... after all, why set goals just to break them? The simple truth is that our failure to keep these resolutions boils down to one word: "P-R-O-C-R-A-S-T-I-N-A-T-I-O-N" What does a 12-step program for procrastinators look like? ... A room full of empty chairs By Patricia Crane, Ph.D. — Scientist, Teacher, Workshop Leader www.HeartInspired.com Have you ever thought about why you procrastinate? Years ago I discovered that my tendency to procrastinate had its roots in teenage rebellion against my mother! When I realized how little value that rebellion had for me as an adult, I could effectively change my behavior. Procrastination is a habit, and one that can be changed — if you are willing. If you have a big project or big dream, procrastinating will just delay it forever and find you regretting the lack of action later. When I was working on my PhD dissertation, I found myself delaying for months because it was such as huge task. Finally I made a deal with myself: I would work on it every morning for 2 hours. Once I did that, I could do anything I wanted to for the rest of the day! What happened is I started getting involved with the project, working 5 to 7 hours a day on it, and the draft was finished in 6 weeks. 1. Start by taking care of a few of those small tasks right away. When you do, CONGRATULATE yourself. Go to the mirror and praise yourself. 2. Create some AFFIRMATIONS for your new way to deal with things. "It feels great to be taking care of things easily and quickly!" (Note — do not use the word 'procrastination' in your affirmations because that gives your subconscious mind the very image of what you do NOT want.) 3. List a few "INSTANT TASKS." What are some immediate things you could take care of easily? 4. Establish MINI-DEADLINES. If you're working on a big project that seems daunting, set aside a short block of time to work on it, say 15 - 30 minutes. 5. Set PRIORITIES. What are the most important tasks that need to be accomplished? Write them down and schedule them. 6. Use the magic "IF" — "I just can't, but IF I could, what would I do?" On the days I didn't feel like working on my dissertation, I would do something mindless like typing up the book list or the table of contents. 7. Take time to recognize any FEARS you might have ... then breathe deeply, and let them go. 8. Identify your most CREATIVE TIME during the day and schedule THAT time for your project. 9. Ask yourself, "How will I feel in 5 years ... if I DON'T put energy toward this goal?" 10. Stop judging yourself for procrastinating. Accept yourself, even when you are procrastinating. Then FORGIVE YOURSELF and GET GOING!                 WARM REGARDS, Akhtar khatri *****help what we can with others in need...the world is ONE big family*****   ALL THE MAILS POSTED BY ME R NOT MY PROPERTY, ALL R TAKEN FROM NET, IF SOMETHING IS COPYRIGHTED PLZ INFORM ME, SO THAT I MAY NOT POST THE MATERIAL IN THE FUTURE

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